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Archive for March, 2009

Why Rehab Is Often Done Far From Home

Thursday, March 12th, 2009

suitcaseWhen considering treatment for a chemical dependency for yourself or a loved one, the first inclination is find a center close to home. But many who enter treatment do so in another state. Why go so far for a service you can get in your own neighborhood?

So many people with a chemical dependency or process addiction opt for treatment thousands of miles because it’s recommended by a professional. In other words, it wasn’t their idea to go so far away, but once they do, they see the benefits almost immediately.
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The Role Addiction Plays In Physical Abuse

Monday, March 9th, 2009

Abused GirlIt would be completely wrong to suggest that everyone with a chemical dependency becomes physically abusive. But it wouldn’t be far fetched to say that chemical substances are almost always involved in physical abuse.

There’s an old saying: “No one hits their wife sober.” That may not be true in every circumstance, but no one will argue with the premise that while under the influence of chemical substances, people will do and say things they’d never have thought possible while sober.

Substance abuse doesn’t always lead to violence against others, but informal studies have shown that when it comes to domestic violence, 80 percent of all incidents involve alcohol use.
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Respect During Recovery

Friday, March 6th, 2009

respectAretha Franklin had it right when she demanded R-E-S-P-E-C-T in her famous song. We need to keep that same tune in mind when interacting with anyone who is dealing with a substance abuse problem.

Televised intervention programs and treatment reality shows can make the process look like a bit of a circus, but in truth, treatment center staff are trained to treat everyone who comes through the doors with respect – and to show family members and others how to do the same.

Emotions are usually running high with all involved by the time someone is approached about seeking treatment for a substance abuse problem. There’s no need to add to that with more drama. Ambushing the person with a problem, running down a laundry list of all they’ve done wrong or bringing up painful family issues in a disrespectful or blaming way will only hinder their ability to accept the help.
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Leave Treatment to the Pros

Thursday, March 5th, 2009

worriedIf you or someone you love is battling an addiction, it’s tempting to try to handle the problem yourself. It may be out of a desire for privacy, a fear an employer or family members may find out or because you’re not sure how you’ll pay for a professional treatment program. You may also think success is more likely in a familiar, comfortable setting. Those arguments seem to make sense on the surface, but statistics show that success rates are exponentially higher when pros are involved. Still not convinced? Then we’ll break down the barriers one by one:

Privacy

Are you really looking for privacy or a way to keep your secrets to yourself? It’s our secrets that keep us sick so exposing them in a safe environment is an important step in the recovery process. When it comes to privacy, any reputable treatment program will have a strenuous policy that ensures your identity and records stay private.
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From Hurting to Healing

Wednesday, March 4th, 2009

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Some experiences are so painful that you’d do anything to avoid reliving them. Unfortunately, that’s just what needs to be done to get to the root of a substance abuse problem or process addiction.

No one willingly chooses to go through pain. In fact, many addictions are born out of a desire to avoid pain in other areas of your life. But that very thing that eases your pain initially can cause even greater pain soon enough. Often, by the time you’re ready to get help, the substance abuse has become the main issue and any past pain is pushed aside. Treat just that chemical dependency, though, and that initial pain is sure to bubble to the surface.
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